5 Best Male Masturbators in 2026: Tested by a Married Man Who Actually Uses Them
Page updated: 27th of September 2026
When we talk about male masturbators, there’s still this assumption that they’re mainly sex toys for lonely or single men. And while they can obviously be great for guys on their own, that’s only part of the story. I’m married, I’ve been using male masturbators for a few years, and I don’t think there’s anything to feel guilty about.
For me, they’re simply another way to enjoy sex and masturbation. Sometimes you want a different sensation, a bit of variety, or twenty minutes to yourself. That doesn’t mean anything is missing from your relationship. Using one doesn't replace intimacy with my wife any more than her toys replace me.
Some of what's on this list works for couples too — a few can be used together, most are built for solo use — but either way, owning one says nothing about what's missing from your relationship. Usually nothing is.
I’ve tested plenty of other male masturbators over the years too, but the ones that didn’t make this list simply didn’t work as well for me — whether because the sensation wasn’t convincing enough, the setup was frustrating, or I just didn’t feel any urge to use them again.
My current favourite is the Lovense Solace Pro. It gets me there faster and gives me stronger orgasms than anything else I've tried, thanks to realistic stroking that actually works hands-free.
It won't suit everyone, though, so below you'll also find picks for stronger stimulation, simpler manual use, easier cleaning and lower budgets.
How I Tested These Male Masturbators
Every one of these was tested at home, over multiple solo sessions, the way I'd actually use it — not in a lab, not for a five-minute demo.
Setup and mounting. Some need a clamp or mount for hands-free use, so part of the test was finding out how practical that really is. A toy can feel incredible once it's in position — but if getting it there is a ten-minute faff, you won't bother next time.
Lube. I used plenty of water-based lube throughout — non-negotiable with this type of toy. It changes the comfort and sensation completely, and gives every sleeve a fair shot at doing its job.
Ease of use. Sometimes I want the app, the interactive modes, all the settings dialled in. And sometimes I want to press one button and get on with it. I tested for both.
Noise. I've got neighbours. I'm not turning music up to hide a sex toy. I listened for motor volume at rest and whether it got noticeably louder as speed increased.
How it actually feels. This is the part that matters. I ran through every speed and programme and paid attention to whether the stroke felt natural or obviously mechanical. With the automatic ones, I checked whether the rhythm and pressure came close to a real blowjob or just felt like a machine moving up and down.
I also tracked whether I stayed hard through to orgasm — with a few of these, I went soft halfway through because the sensation went flat or repetitive. The best ones kept me rock hard the whole way.
Fit and comfort. I’m above average in size, so sleeve length and internal fit matter to me more than they might to some users. I checked whether I could fit comfortably inside each masturbator without feeling overly restricted, whether the sleeve accommodated me properly during a full stroke, and whether anything became uncomfortable once the speed or intensity increased. A masturbator can have brilliant technology, but if my penis doesn’t fit comfortably inside the sleeve, I’m simply not going to enjoy using it.
The orgasm itself. Not scientific, but definitely comparable: how quickly I got there, how strong the orgasm felt, and whether I ejaculated more or less than I normally would. With some models, I noticed a surprisingly big difference.
I also let a few keep going for a short time after orgasm to see whether the extra stimulation stayed pleasurable or tipped straight into overstimulation.
Cleaning. Not the fun part of the review, but it decides whether a toy gets used again or sits in a drawer. If taking it apart, washing it properly and putting it back together is a chore, it stops getting picked up. Every product here was cleaned by me, every time.
I wasn't chasing the longest spec sheet. I was after the ones that felt good, were easy to live with, and that I actually wanted to reach for again.
1. Lovense Solace Pro – Best Overall Male Masturbator
This is the retail packaging for the Lovense Solace Pro. This device was sent to me directly by Lovense for hands-on, long-term testing.
What I like: Exceptionally smooth sleeve, gentle and convincing stroking, excellent hands-free use, easy physical controls and, for me, the most intense orgasms of any masturbator I’ve tested.
What could be better: It’s large and fairly heavy, getting the clamp position right takes a little experimentation, and it becomes noticeably louder at higher speeds.
I’ve tested plenty of automatic male masturbators, but the Lovense Solace Pro is still the one I reach for most often. More importantly, it’s the one that consistently gives me the best experience from beginning to end.
And for me, that doesn’t mean simply getting to orgasm as quickly as possible.
The sleeve and stroking are what make it special
The first thing I noticed with the Solace Pro was just how smooth the sleeve feels. There’s nothing harsh or overly aggressive about it. With plenty of water-based lubricant, the combination of the soft sleeve and the stroking movement feels incredibly gentle.
At the slower and medium settings, it reminds me more of a slow, deep blowjob than a machine trying to masturbate me as quickly as possible.
That distinction has become increasingly important to me.
I’m 52 now, and while I completely understand why younger men might want the fastest and most intense setting immediately, that isn’t really how I enjoy sex these days. I prefer taking my time, letting the sensation build gradually and getting closer and closer to orgasm rather than rushing towards it.
The Solace Pro is exceptionally good at that.
I can start with a slow stroke, enjoy it for a while, gradually increase the speed and intensity and let the orgasm build naturally. The movement feels smooth and controlled rather than frantic or obviously robotic.
No automatic masturbator genuinely recreates receiving oral sex from another person, but in terms of the rhythm, depth and gradual build-up, the Solace Pro gets closer than most I've tried.
And the orgasms can be ridiculously intense
This is ultimately why the Solace Pro remains my number-one male masturbator.
When I take my time with it and slowly increase the intensity, the orgasm at the end can be insane.
There have been sessions where my whole body has tingled afterwards and even my back has ached slightly from the intensity of the contractions — very much in a pleasurable way.
I also tend to ejaculate considerably more with the Solace Pro than I normally do. Obviously that's my personal experience rather than something I can promise will happen to everyone, but it has happened often enough for me to notice a clear difference.
And because the sensation stays interesting throughout the session, I don't have the problem I've experienced with some automatic masturbators where I start losing my erection halfway through because the movement has become repetitive.
With the Solace Pro, I usually stay completely hard right through to orgasm.
I've also experimented with letting it continue stroking for a little while after ejaculation. At that point the sensation becomes extraordinarily intense very quickly. Sometimes it's pleasurable for a few seconds; sometimes I have to stop it almost immediately because I've become so sensitive.
The clamp makes a huge difference
The Solace Pro is not something I'd want to hold throughout an entire session. It's a substantial machine, and holding that weight takes away much of the appeal.
The clamp is what transforms it.
There is a little trial and error involved at first. You have to find the correct height, angle and distance for your body, and the perfect setup will depend on your bed or furniture.
Once I've got it positioned properly, though, I can lie back and genuinely use it hands-free.
That matters enormously to me because instead of thinking about holding or moving the toy, I can concentrate entirely on the sensation. Combined with those slower, deeper strokes, that's when the Solace Pro is at its best.
Fit matters to me too
I'm above average in size, so sleeve dimensions aren't something I can ignore when testing male masturbators. Some products can feel restrictive or don't allow enough room for a comfortable full session.
I don't have that problem with the Solace Pro. It accommodates me comfortably, and even as the stroke speed increases I don't feel squeezed or awkwardly positioned inside the sleeve.
That combination of fit, softness and smooth movement is a big part of why I can use it for a longer, slower session without becoming uncomfortable.
Do I actually use the app?
Lovense gives you plenty to play with through its app, including custom patterns, remote control and interactive features.
They're great to have, but they're not the reason the Solace Pro is number one for me.
Sometimes I enjoy experimenting with the technology. Other times I simply want to masturbate without finding my phone, connecting Bluetooth and turning it into another piece of tech that needs configuring.
Thankfully, I can just use the physical controls.
That sounds like a small detail, but after testing sex toys for years I've realised that convenience has a huge influence on whether I continue using something after I've finished reviewing it.
And I still use the Solace Pro.
Noise and cleaning
It's not silent, particularly once I start increasing the speed.I wouldn't describe the noise as enough to ruin the experience, though, and because I generally prefer the slower and medium speeds for much of the session, it isn't constantly running flat-out.
Cleaning is also reasonably straightforward. The sleeve can be removed and washed separately, although you do need to give it enough time to dry properly before putting everything back together.
A simple manual masturbator will always be quicker to clean, but the Solace Pro isn't so inconvenient that cleaning discourages me from using it again.
Why it's still my number one
There are masturbators that are smaller. There are quieter ones. There are cheaper ones, and there are products that require almost no setup at all.
But none of those things matter quite as much to me as how good the entire session feels.
At 52, I prefer a slower build rather than going immediately for maximum intensity. The Solace Pro lets me take my time, its sleeve feels beautifully smooth, the stroking can feel surprisingly gentle and deep, and when I eventually increase the speed, the orgasm can be extraordinarily powerful.
That's why, after testing plenty of alternatives, the Lovense Solace Pro remains the male masturbator I would choose for myself.
Best for: Men who want a premium hands-free masturbator with smooth, deep stroking and the ability to build slowly towards an extremely intense orgasm.
2. BestVibe Storm — Best for Intense Stimulation
What I like: Extremely powerful thrusting and spinning sensation, very quick setup, proper hands-free use without an app or clamp, easy cleaning and excellent value for under $100.
What could be better: The movement can be too intense for me at times, it needs plenty of lubricant, and the suction cup only works properly once you find the right surface.
The BestVibe Storm surprised me, because on paper it isn't necessarily the kind of masturbator I normally prefer.
As I mentioned with the Solace Pro, I'm 52 and these days I tend to enjoy a slower, smoother build towards orgasm. The Storm takes almost the opposite approach. It combines thrusting with a spinning movement, and when you start increasing the intensity, things can get pretty wild.
Yet somehow, when the Storm works for me, it really works.
The spinning movement makes this completely different
The Storm doesn't feel particularly natural in the way the Solace Pro can.
I'm not going to tell you that the spinning sensation feels like a blowjob, because it doesn't. This is very obviously a sex toy doing something a human mouth isn't going to replicate.
But that's also the point.
You get the up-and-down thrusting movement combined with rotation around the penis, and together they create a very intense type of stimulation.
It's powerful enough that I can maintain my hard-on all the way through the session, which is important to me. I've tested other automatic masturbators where I've gradually lost interest — and eventually my erection — because the sensation became repetitive.
I don't have that problem with the Storm.
If anything, my problem here can be the opposite: sometimes it's simply too much.
Use a LOT of water-based lube
And I really mean a lot.
The first time I used the Storm, I underestimated how much friction that spinning movement can create. I didn't use enough lubricant and managed to make myself a little sore.
Lesson learned.
Now I'm very generous with water-based lube before I start, and the experience is completely different.
Once everything is properly lubricated, the spinning movement becomes much smoother while still retaining the intensity that makes the Storm special.
I don't orgasm every time — but when I do...
This is probably the most unusual thing about my experience with the Storm.
I don't necessarily reach orgasm every time I use it.
That sounds strange for something I'm ranking as my second-best male masturbator, but there's a reason.
Sometimes the combination of spinning and thrusting becomes so intense that instead of helping me build towards orgasm, it almost becomes sensory overload.
I may slow it down, change programme or eventually decide I've had enough.
But when I find the right setting and everything comes together, the orgasm can be absolutely mad.
It's a very different experience from the Solace Pro. With the Solace I can slowly build towards an orgasm and almost control the journey. With the Storm, it can feel much more explosive and unpredictable.
And I can absolutely see why some men would prefer that.
Younger guys may actually prefer this to my number one
Sexual preferences change, and I think age probably plays some part in what we enjoy.
I prefer the slower, deeper sensation of the Solace Pro now. But if you're younger — or simply someone who loves hard, intense stimulation — I could easily imagine you preferring the Storm.
It's aggressive without requiring lots of technology.
There's no phone sitting next to you. No Bluetooth connection. No app menus. No clamp that needs positioning.
Sometimes I want sophisticated app-controlled features. Other times I just want to get hard, use plenty of lube, press a button and start.
The Storm is brilliant for the second scenario.
Hands-free in seconds — provided the suction cup sticks
Rather than using a clamp system, the Storm relies on a suction-cup base.
That's much quicker.
The only catch is that you need the right surface. Smooth, solid surfaces work far better than anything textured or uneven, and I had to experiment a little before finding the position that worked best for me.
Once it's properly attached, though, it's genuinely hands-free.
And because there isn't a separate mounting system to assemble, I can have the Storm ready in seconds.
It's surprisingly easy to live with
For something this powerful, the Storm isn't particularly complicated.
I find it very easy to operate, and I don't consider it excessively noisy either. You're obviously going to hear the motor and mechanical movement, particularly at stronger settings, but I don't feel like I need to turn music up simply to disguise it.
Cleaning is straightforward too. The sleeve can be removed, which makes washing it properly much less frustrating than toys where the internal section is difficult to access.
That matters because after a powerful session with plenty of lubricant, the last thing I want is a complicated twenty-minute cleanup operation.
The value is difficult to argue with
This might be the Storm's biggest advantage after the actual sensation.
For under $100, you're getting a proper automatic thrusting and rotating masturbator with hands-free suction mounting and multiple programmes.
That's impressive.
The Solace Pro remains my number one because its smoother movement and slower build suit the way I like to masturbate.
But the Storm isn't trying to be a cheaper Solace.
It's more aggressive, more immediate and considerably less subtle. And for guys who like it hard, that's precisely why I think it's such a serious masturbator.
Best for: Men who want powerful thrusting and spinning stimulation, strong hands-free performance and maximum intensity without spending more than $100.
3. Kiiroo Keon — Best for Customisation
What I like: Excellent stroking movement, a huge choice of interchangeable sleeves, strong orgasms, good manual controls and plenty of interactive options if you want them.
What could be better: It’s big and heavy, the sleeve and clamp can add considerably to the final price, setup isn’t as straightforward as the Solace Pro, and cleaning takes a little more effort.
The Kiiroo Keon is probably the closest rival to the Lovense Solace Pro in this guide. Both are powerful automatic strokers that can give you a proper hands-free experience, both offer app-controlled interactive features, and both can deliver an excellent orgasm.
But they approach the experience quite differently.
The Solace Pro feels like a complete machine straight out of the box. The Keon feels more like the engine at the centre of a system that you build around yourself.
And that's exactly what makes it so interesting.
The sleeves are the Keon's secret weapon
With the Keon, the masturbator itself provides the stroking movement, but the sleeve is a separate part of the experience.
At first, that can seem like a disadvantage because it means another purchase. But once you've used the Keon, you realise that the interchangeable sleeves are actually one of its biggest strengths.
There are plenty to choose from, including sleeves modelled on well-known adult performers.
I tested mine with the Agatha Vega sleeve, and I really liked it. It felt nicely tight around me without becoming uncomfortable, and combined with the Keon's stroking movement it produced a very satisfying sensation.
But what's particularly clever is that changing the sleeve can make the same Keon feel like a completely different masturbator.
Buy two or three different sleeves and you aren't simply changing the appearance. The internal textures, tightness and sensation can be noticeably different.
For someone who enjoys variety, that's a major advantage.
The stroking feels powerful and convincing
The Keon is much closer to the Solace Pro than something like the BestVibe Storm.
You're getting an up-and-down stroking movement rather than the more extreme combination of spinning and thrusting that makes the Storm so intense.
That's generally more my style.
The Keon's movement feels smooth and powerful, and with the Agatha Vega sleeve I found it easy to maintain my hard-on throughout the session.
I can start relatively slowly, enjoy the sensation for a while and gradually increase the speed as I get closer to orgasm.
The quality of the orgasm is very good too.
It doesn't quite beat the Solace Pro for me. The Solace has that exceptionally smooth sleeve and gentle, deep movement that suits the way I like to build towards orgasm these days.
But the Keon comes close.
And depending on which sleeve you choose, you could potentially create an experience that suits you even better than the one I tested.
You don't have to use the app
Kiiroo puts a lot of emphasis on its interactive ecosystem, and if that's what you're looking for, there's plenty here to explore.
You can connect the Keon to interactive content and use the app to control the experience. For someone who enjoys experimenting with technology during masturbation, that's a big part of the appeal.
But just like with the Solace Pro, I'm glad that I don't have to use all of it.
Sometimes I want to play with the interactive features.
Other times I just want to set the Keon up, add plenty of water-based lube, press the controls and enjoy myself.
And the Keon works perfectly well like that.
I think that's important. A smart sex toy should still be a good sex toy when you don't feel like using the smart features.
The clamp is almost essential for me
This is where the Keon loses ground to the Solace Pro.
It's a big, heavy masturbator.
Technically you can use it while holding it, but personally I don't see much point. Having to support something this substantial throughout a session takes away one of the main reasons I'd buy an automatic masturbator in the first place.
For me, the Keon really needs a clamp.
Once it's mounted securely, the experience is much better because I can relax and let the machine do the work.
The problem is that the clamp isn't necessarily included with the Keon, so that's another cost you need to factor into the purchase.
And compared with the Solace Pro, I find getting the Keon into the perfect position a little more fiddly.
Once everything is set up correctly, it's excellent. Getting there just takes slightly more effort.
It's big — even compared with the Solace Pro
Neither of these masturbators is something you're casually hiding in a bedside drawer.
But the Keon feels particularly substantial once you've got the main unit, sleeve and mounting system together.
That's not necessarily a bad thing. It feels solid and capable of producing the strong stroking movement I want.
But if discretion or easy storage matters to you, it's worth knowing before you buy.
This definitely isn't the masturbator I'd choose for travelling.
Cleaning takes a little more effort
Cleaning the Keon isn't difficult, but I don't find it quite as straightforward as cleaning the Solace Pro.
Because you're dealing with the removable sleeve and its casing, there's a little more dismantling and reassembling involved.
Again, this isn't a deal-breaker for me. I've continued using it after reviewing it, which says more than any cleaning score really can.
But when I've just had an orgasm and want to get on with the rest of my evening, the Solace Pro feels slightly easier to deal with.
The price can add up quickly
This is the main reason the Keon sits at number three rather than challenging the Solace Pro for my top spot.
The initial price doesn't necessarily tell you what your complete setup is going to cost.
You have the Keon itself, then the sleeve you want, and for the way I use it, I'd also budget for the clamp.
Then there's the temptation to buy another sleeve.
And another.
That's simultaneously the Keon's greatest strength and its biggest weakness.
If you only want one automatic masturbator that you can buy, set up and forget about, there are simpler options.
But if you like the idea of having one powerful automatic stroking machine that can feel completely different depending on which sleeve you put inside it, the Keon is genuinely brilliant.
Why it's in my top three
The Keon delivers where it matters.
I can stay hard throughout the session, the stroking feels powerful and satisfying, and the orgasms I've had with it have been very good.
But what really separates it from everything else I've tested is that customisation.
I used the Agatha Vega sleeve and loved the tighter sensation, but another sleeve could give me a completely different experience without replacing the machine itself.
That's clever, and it's something neither the Solace Pro nor the Storm really offers in the same way.
The downside is cost. By the time you've added a good sleeve and the clamp — and inevitably started looking at another sleeve — this can become an expensive masturbator.
But if variety matters to you, the Kiiroo Keon is one of the most interesting automatic masturbators I've tested.
Best for: Men who want a powerful hands-free stroker with interchangeable sleeves and the ability to personalise how each session feels.
4. Lovense Gush 2 — Best for Powerful Vibration
The Gush 2 is my choice for intense, quick sessions. I always use a quality water-based lubricant and tighten the band correctly, which is key to maximizing the suction and intensity of the experience.
What I like: Exceptionally powerful vibration, fits comfortably even if you're above average in size, tiny compared with the automatic machines above, waterproof, very easy to clean and capable of producing incredibly intense orgasms.
What could be better: The hands-free experience simply doesn't get me to orgasm, the adjustable band needs to be quite tight to keep the vibrator exactly where I want it, and the open-ended design can make ejaculation rather messy.
The Lovense Gush 2 is probably the strangest recommendation in this guide, because I don't really use it the way it's intended to be used.
Lovense designed it as a hands-free penis vibrator. You wrap the soft silicone wings around your penis, secure them with the adjustable band and position the vibrating section so that it makes good contact around the head and frenulum.
And yes, it works.
It stays in position, it fits me comfortably even though I'm above average in size, and the vibrations are powerful.
But as a completely hands-free masturbator?
It doesn't work for me.
I know plenty of men enjoy long edging sessions where they can lie back, leave a vibrator in position and gradually build towards orgasm. That's just not really my thing.
I've tried it that way plenty of times and I've never managed to reach orgasm simply by leaving the Gush 2 attached and waiting for the vibrations to do all the work.
But then I started using it differently.
And that's when things got ridiculous.
Forget hands-free — I use it while masturbating
For me, the Gush 2 becomes a completely different sex toy when I add plenty of water-based lube, turn the vibration right up and masturbate normally while wearing it.
OMG.
This can easily be one of the most intense experiences of all the masturbators in this guide.
Instead of asking the Gush 2 to do all the work, I'm controlling the stroking movement myself while the vibrator is delivering extremely powerful stimulation directly around the head and frenulum at the same time.
That combination works incredibly well for me.
I stay hard the entire time, I always reach orgasm when I use it this way, and I can get there surprisingly quickly.
More importantly, the orgasms can be seriously powerful.
The vibrating sleeve.
Positioning makes a huge difference
The Gush 2 isn't something I'd just loosely wrap around my penis and hope for the best.
I get much better results when I make sure it's sitting quite tightly.
The adjustable band helps with that, but the really important thing is positioning the stimulating section exactly where I want it — particularly around the top and the frenulum.
If the Gush 2 is sitting too loosely or slightly out of position, I don't get anywhere near the same sensation.
Once it's tight enough and making proper contact, the difference is enormous.
Because the silicone wings are flexible, fit hasn't been a problem for me either. I'm above average in size and there's still enough stretch to get a secure fit without feeling like my penis is being crushed.
The orgasm is the reason it made my top four
This is where the Gush 2 becomes difficult to beat.
Used hands-free, I can sit there for ages and never quite get where I want to go.
Used while masturbating?
Completely different story.
At maximum intensity, with plenty of lube and the vibrator positioned properly, the stimulation can build extremely quickly.
I tend to ejaculate considerably more than normal with the Gush 2 as well. That's obviously just my personal experience, but it's something I've noticed repeatedly rather than once or twice.
And unlike the Solace Pro or Keon, you can actually see everything happening because the Gush 2 doesn't enclose the whole penis.
That makes the orgasm feel even more intense to me.
It can also make it very messy.
Because the end is completely open, there's nothing there to contain the ejaculation. If I'm not careful, semen can end up absolutely everywhere.
My very practical advice?
Put your hand over the end when you're about to come.
Problem solved.
It doesn't feel like any of the other masturbators here
The Gush 2 isn't trying to recreate oral sex.
There's no sleeve moving up and down your penis. There's no automatic thrusting motor. There's no spinning mechanism.
It's concentrated vibration combined with whatever movement you give it.
That's precisely why I like having it in this guide.
The Solace Pro gives me that slower, deep, almost blowjob-like experience.
The Storm is about aggressive automatic intensity.
The Keon is about customisation and interchangeable sleeves.
The Gush 2 is different again: it makes my normal masturbation dramatically more intense.
And sometimes that's exactly what I want.
It's also ridiculously convenient
After the big machines above, the Gush 2 feels almost comically small.
There's no clamp. No suction mount. No giant motor unit. No separate sleeve.
I can take it out, put it around my penis, add some water-based lube and be ready within seconds.
That also makes it by far one of the easiest masturbators here to travel with or store discreetly.
And cleaning couldn't be much easier.
It's waterproof, so after I've finished I can wash it properly without worrying about keeping a big motor housing away from water. Considering how messy my sessions with the Gush 2 can occasionally become, I appreciate that enormously.
Do you need the app?
As with most Lovense toys, there are plenty of interactive features if you want them.
And they're useful if you're into remote control, long-distance play or experimenting with different vibration patterns.
But once again, that's not why I keep using it.
For me, the winning formula is embarrassingly simple:
Gush 2 + plenty of water-based lube + maximum vibration + my hand.
That's it.
I don't need to connect my phone. I don't need interactive content. I don't need a complicated programme.
Used that way, it gives me one of the fastest and strongest orgasms of any male sex toy I've tested.
Why it's in my top four
I couldn't put the Gush 2 above the Solace Pro because it doesn't replace masturbation in the same way. And if you're specifically shopping for a hands-free masturbator, my experience probably isn't going to sell you on it.
But that's also why I think it's important to be honest about how I actually use these products rather than repeating what the manufacturer says they're supposed to do.
The Gush 2 doesn't work particularly well for me as a hands-free masturbator. It works brilliantly as a tool that makes masturbation dramatically better.
Once I stopped trying to use it the “correct” way and started using it in the way that worked for me, it became one of my favourite male sex toys.
Small, powerful, easy to clean and capable of absolutely ridiculous orgasms.
What's not to like?
Best for: Men who love powerful vibration and want a compact toy that can turn a normal masturbation session into something considerably more intense.
5. Cyberskin The Wing — Best for Relaxed Bed Use
What I like: Exceptionally soft sleeve, almost no setup, comfortable two-handle design, relatively quiet operation, easy cleaning and a much more intimate feeling than the larger automatic machines.
What could be better: It isn't as powerful as the Solace Pro or Storm, there’s no true hands-free mounting system, and men looking for extremely aggressive stimulation may find it a little too gentle.
The Cyberskin The Wing is completely different from the other automatic masturbators in this guide.
There’s no clamp to attach to the bed. No suction cup to find a surface for. No complicated mounting system. And I don't need to move the toy up and down with my hands.
I simply put plenty of water-based lube inside the extremely soft sleeve, slide my penis in, hold the two handles and relax.
And that's really the appeal of The Wing.
This is probably the most intimate masturbator I've tested
“Intimate” might sound like a strange word to use for an automatic masturbator, but that's genuinely how The Wing feels to me.
With something like the Solace Pro or Keon, there's always a sense that you're using a machine. They're large, they're mounted to furniture and you can hear and feel the motor doing its job.
The Wing feels much less clinical.
I can use it while lying comfortably in bed, hold the handles naturally at either side and let the internal movement do the work.
I'm not actively masturbating with it. My hands are really just there to keep everything comfortably positioned.
That makes the whole experience surprisingly relaxing.
Sometimes I don't want a sex toy that feels like I'm operating machinery. I just want to lie in bed, get comfortable and enjoy the sensation.
The Wing is brilliant for that.
The sleeve is incredibly soft
The sleeve is probably my favourite thing about The Wing.
It feels extremely soft against the penis, and with plenty of water-based lubricant there's very little harshness or friction.
Because I'm above average in size, fit is something I pay particular attention to with masturbators. I need enough room to be comfortable throughout an entire session rather than feeling squeezed into a sleeve that's simply too tight.
The Wing works well for me.
The sensation is softer and gentler than something like the Storm, and it doesn't have the tight, interchangeable feel of the Kiiroo Keon with my Agatha Vega sleeve.
Instead, it feels comfortable and enveloping.
It isn't the most powerful — and that's okay
If your idea of the perfect masturbator is maximum speed and overwhelming stimulation, The Wing probably shouldn't be your first choice.
The Storm is considerably more aggressive, and the Gush 2 can produce much more concentrated stimulation when I use it at maximum vibration.
The Wing is different.
The sensation builds more gradually, and for me that's actually part of its charm.
I can stay hard throughout the session, relax into the movement and let things build naturally rather than feeling like the toy is trying to force an orgasm out of me.
And although it isn't the most powerful masturbator here, that doesn't mean the orgasm is weak.
Far from it.
When I've taken my time with The Wing, I've had some very strong orgasms with it. They tend to arrive after a slower, more relaxed build rather than the almost explosive intensity I sometimes get from the Storm or Gush 2.
At 52, I increasingly appreciate that kind of experience.
No clamp, no app, no complicated setup
This is where The Wing absolutely shines.
I don't have to find somewhere suitable for a clamp.
I don't have to worry about whether a suction cup is going to stay attached.
I don't have to position a huge machine at exactly the right height.
And I don't need my phone sitting beside me.
I can take The Wing to bed, add lube, switch it on and start.
That's it.
If you've got limited space — or simply don't fancy attaching a sex toy to your furniture every time you masturbate — The Wing makes a lot of sense.
The handles work surprisingly well
The two handles are an important part of why I find The Wing comfortable.
I'm not repeatedly moving the entire machine up and down like a manual masturbator. I simply hold it in position and can make small adjustments when I want to change the angle or pressure.
That gives me a little more control than a completely fixed hands-free setup without turning the session into manual masturbation.
It's a nice halfway point.
The machine still does the work, but I'm never locked into one exact position.
It's discreet
Noise is another area where The Wing performs well.
You can obviously hear that there's a motor inside it, but I don't consider it particularly loud.
Compared with some of the larger automatic machines, The Wing feels considerably less intrusive.
Its smaller size also makes it easier to store discreetly when I'm finished.
Cleaning is straightforward too
After using some complicated automatic masturbators, I've learned just how much cleaning affects whether I actually reach for a product again.
The Wing is relatively simple.
The sleeve is easy to access and wash, and because the overall design isn't made up of clamps, separate mounts and several different pieces, there isn't a lot to deal with afterwards.
That's exactly what I want after a relaxed session.
I don't want to spend twenty minutes dismantling a sex machine when I'm done.
Why The Wing made my top five
The Wing isn't here because it's the most powerful masturbator I've tested.
It isn't.
It's here because it gives me something the others don't.
It feels intimate.
I can take it to bed, slide into that incredibly soft sleeve, hold the two handles and simply relax while the machine does the work.
There’s almost no setup, it's comfortable, reasonably quiet and the orgasms can still be very strong.
For me, that's enough to make it one of the male masturbators I genuinely enjoy using.
And if you want an automatic masturbator but don't have room for a clamp, don't want an app and prefer masturbating comfortably in bed, The Wing could actually make more sense for you than some of the much more expensive machines above it.
Best for: Men who want a soft, simple automatic masturbator for relaxed sessions in bed without clamps, apps or complicated setup.
Conclusion: Which Male Masturbator Would I Buy?
After testing all of these over multiple sessions, the Lovense Solace Pro is still the male masturbator I would choose for myself.
At 52, I prefer a slower, smoother build towards orgasm rather than maximum intensity from the first minute. The Solace Pro gives me that better than anything else I’ve tested. The sleeve feels incredibly smooth, the stroking can feel deep and surprisingly natural, and when I gradually increase the intensity, the orgasms can be extraordinary.
But this guide has also reminded me that there really isn't one perfect masturbator for every man.
If you want something much more intense and aggressive, the BestVibe Storm is fantastic value. The Kiiroo Keon is the one I'd choose if changing sleeves and personalising the sensation appeals to you. The Lovense Gush 2 gives me some of the strongest and fastest orgasms when I use it alongside normal masturbation, while Cyberskin The Wing is probably the most relaxing option when I simply want to lie in bed and enjoy myself without clamps, apps or complicated setup.
And perhaps the biggest thing I’ve learned after using male masturbators for several years is that you shouldn't feel embarrassed about owning one.
I'm married. I enjoy sex with my wife. I also masturbate and use sex toys on my own. Those things don't contradict each other.
Sometimes I want intimacy with another person. Sometimes I want twenty minutes to myself.
And if a sex toy makes those twenty minutes considerably more enjoyable, I'm perfectly happy with that.
Jerome
About the author: I'm Jerome, founder of Dapper & Groomed. I've spent the past 13 years testing and reviewing sex toys,fragrances, grooming products, and men's lifestyle gear on this blog and on my YouTube channel. My reviews are never approved or previewed by brands — just honest, real-world testing from a dad who's been at this since 2013.
I tested 5 of the best male masturbators in 2026, from Lovense to Kiiroo, comparing sensation, orgasm intensity, noise, fit and cleaning.